I am a bi Leo female and fell for this Libra woman, who I have been friends with for around 2-3 years, and fell for her over a year ago. Trying to keep everything balanced and perfect and then blaming myself if everyone isn't happy. 1 ultimatum don't talk to my best friend anymore. I can't believe this is how I am? This is also called sosiopathic. Every single thing you confided in the libra will thrown back at you as a weapon to hurt you. They will compensate for with food (especially fats, alcohol, and sweets) and urge others to overindulge along with them. This will influence her to shift her attention toward happiness. She is condescending, arrogant, extremely intrusive, uses my brother to find out what I am doing even though I am a mature woman. Libras are the biggest gaslighters imaginable. Are looking for the meaning of life, the chronically lazy and manipulate the environment to work for them. I am a lion. the least balanced sign. And they hate confrontation, bull, they are the cause of it. As an aquarius, I usually like some time for peace and space, but she keeps getting in my business and always knows how to aggravate me. The content produced by YourTango is for informational and educational purposes only. How can two people who are different yet the same say the same thing about me? If you notice that she has isolated herself, then you should take the time to teach yourself about what happens when a Libra woman is sad. It triggered me into believing that the Libra still loved me. she is to this day. Why Do Libras Hide Their Feelings? Friendship and respect are a two-way street. I found out later they talked on the phone after my wife told me. its like they trick themselves they feed their demons till they are so very full and they enjoy it. Sylvia Sky (author) from USA on October 08, 2016: Shewolf, it is painful for all when people don't understand us. One Libran is not going to be the same as the other. Simply with using second person nouns such as "You can," and "You should.". Thank you. And booooyyyyyy. It will benefit her if you take the time to support her by giving her the means to explore her interests. I was married to a Virgo woman, one who heavily did the virgo thing which is pessimistically driven to chastise and be judgmental to the end. Libra women, when sad or upset, often find that their behaviors betray their emotional turmoil. I once got angry at one of my siblings and I zoned out while I was close to their neck to chock them. That only helps to make it clear that those people are not compatible and I don't want them in my life. Then she uses that information against them. Off course, I am not going to vent on strangers when I am wronged by a close one as it will not be justified. When I get angry I yell and scream but if it gets worst I start getting physical and it's scary. Libra females are lost of words. Fang you at this point. He also took me around by car to show wonderful places etc. I love her like a sister. Libras are all about relationships and balance and will go at any lengths to acheive this whether its making people feel sorry for them, misusing others for their own gain, exhibiting superficial emotions to have codependent relationships. If look from the good side we're doing you a favor before you meet our Lucifer side so you must be happy :). Kind loving. Second thought about this subjectwe all have negative traits, can't have the positive without the negative. Libras are a lot about words. 2.) I have my absolutely awful moments when I break someone's trust, when I hurt someone's feelings, and try to control everything and act like it's not my fault. If you make the point to be present in her life, then she will appreciate the support that you are offering her. They will go to great lengths to achieve it, but those lengths depend on that particular Libra. Other zodiac signs may be a little bit more subtle about this. I tried several times to con myself that perhaps my gut instinct was off, I'd since found out she was a Libra, I'd never met one until then (that's a whole 36 years without knowing a Libra, I wasn't missing anything). The thing about Libras is that public image is everything to them. A lifelong libra friend I'm strongly considering giving up. etc etc. , Last Updated on October 31, 2020 by Sloane Marie. But when others give you guff, you can be sure the problem is about them, not you. They are popular works as well and everything that motivates them is to please themselves under the guise of providing the other. How To Impress Libra Men? How? Some people agreeing with this in its whole has proven they know and strongly dislike a certain libra in their life, and have no reason to disagree because of the obvious pain THAT negative libra has caused. I'm Aquarius and many followed after constellations Libra and always pretended I did not notice, but they are so careful people! In this, I am able to convince strangers or people not too close to me, to give into me or to do this for me. Don't take this as a sign of weakness or to underestimate use.v.e.r. Let him ask a few questions that were way out of line before lost my temper & told him to plz back the hell off. The one I know best is so selfish, vindictive that she doesn't care who's life she ruins while in the process of getting what she wants. They cant get enough of the sugary stuff. She was married to my dad (scorpio) and she would throw tantrums and do everything to get her way. My mom is a libra and she is exactly like that. And I suspect that he would sexually rape his ex-wife little sister when she was about 10 y/o and I was about 14, but then I never had any proofs of it nor she ever said anything about it, like I myself never did say a word with fear, when I was being raped for all those nights. What makes worse about him is that he is double faced and people can only see his bright side, that he is helpful to people, he helps my sister financially, he cares about my parents and is looking after them. I realized that I was obsessed with being in love and finding someone who loves me and takes interest in me, and goes the extra mile for me. Samantha Maffucci is an editor for YourTango who has written hundreds of articles about relationships, trending news and entertainment, and astrology. Yes, at this point I'm the meanest person i know. Mr. Libra 2 was buying me gifts, showing up at my house (uninvited) and sent me a message saying he "Loved me with every fiber of his being"! Like you might know, Libras absolutely hate confrontation. They cannot be in one relationship and as soon they breakup with you, you will find out they are dating someone else with no compassion of your broken heart. When charged with bad behavior, they will say, Oh, Im such a bad person. She balances that by verbally skewering and humiliating people. She may choose to focus her social and emotional energy on new relationships. Pisces is the most sensitive sign in the zodiac. There are Librans whom I both like and despise for this quality, depending on what they've got to say. when, in fact, your sign might have some deeper insights into your personality traits instead of just scratching the surface. Done. All that's left (like the bad traits mentioned above which seemed to me like traits of a dangerous personality disorder) is formed depending on countless variables (the way one was raised, experiences etc..) we do have a dark side, but we don't all react the same way. Tired Aries woman sick of the Libra injustice. I was overwhelmed and tearful as it was my dad who gave me it in advance, and it was the first time he told me he loved me - I am telling her the story, she wasn't interested and tried to turn it all back to her new Prey, a new man. Then the bag tells me I was telling & she needed to go. When in discussion about this libra others who think they know her well will defend her and say she is gracious and unselfish. 4.) Yes and no as a libra it's easier to show negative emotions than positive it's kinda complicated, we feel things really deeply and are sensitive but we don't really show it much.. the most genuine reactions from us is anger, sadness and anxiety. A lawyer once made a circle of names with a dot in the center. she abused me because she didnt know any better. If i started talking excitedly about what i was learning and even invited her to class, she was cold, uncaring and uninterested (this is the woman who maxes out credit cards at cheap clothing shops..). When I started to find my feet and grow back into my own skin and started embracing life (I started sewing classes and then attending Couture workshops) she didn't want to know. I have known other Libra women too. Irritability is the worst part I hate about myself. Finally, to our regret, years later we gave up and let the kids go since she was ruining our and their lives in the process of her severe selfishness. Its that I still struggle loving myself and getttin my wants and needs. Here as a person who is many time being soft spoken and caring(Pisces). Libra people are charming and very easy to attract you. With their words, Libras can easily make a fool of belligerent and uncouth individuals who act as though the world revolves around them. This article was accurate about "some" of my dark traits. Other day called her home only to have her drunk freind try to question me on religion? controlling. They are the cause to my misery. So.. (how do I express myself without sounding like a total Libra) I would love to discuss some of the points of this article just to shine light from the PERSONAL perspective not to justify our behaviour, not to disrespect other points of views, but just to try and explain. Do Libras hide their emotions? How do you know when to let go of someone you love? I was shocked at how "fake nice" my Libra college professor (who was also my advisor for a college club) would talk SH*T about other professors, administrators and anyone who seemed to have a "higher position" of authority than her. And i had to join to comment lol. I have to say you have gone out of your way to taint this sign more so than they deserve and more so than your other dark side write ups. Please take time to read a few of her books to understand what she was really all about. Most good tennis players are Librans and are very bad losers. he is nothing like my mom. Yes, lazyness is something theyll admit to. They try to show that nothing is wrong. You may want to look in the mirror first. Men with a Libra Sun or Moon are masters of the silent treatment and passive aggression. The stereotype that portrays us like a sweet candy floss and charming lucky charms is so misleading. My life was fairly quiet and normal until Mr. Libra came into my life. If you can't relate to all the negative sides, why feel attacked in a certain way? I invited her to be part of a group, and they made fun of her "opening monologue" behind her back. Give it all to me the good and the bad. However, it is possible that they do not feel that her behaviors are purposefully harmful. Great lays. Libra men are sensitive. theyre usually really calm but i noticed how they cant tolerate stupidity if no ones watching theyll lash out probably useing really hurtful remarks. Now I have blocked her on everything & have zero plans to ever speak to this intensely superficial flake as i realize now beyond the woo hoo party thats all she was really good for & coming to this understanding broke my heart. So to say my ability to maintain connection is fucked is putting it mildly. We are the balance of all of the signsthe only sign in all the Zodiac that can bridge the void between each sign and become the great arbitrator of the cosmos (Sound grandiose and pompous..welcome to the world of Libra..but..we all also know it's true ;) ). If your not a "capricunt" you have the face and attitude for one. I'm a Capricorn who's been getting to know this Libra male. We are the empaths of the Zodiac.the unconscious rhythm of the universe connected to both sides of all things: Light/Dark - Good/Evil - Balance/Chaos - Moderation/Gluttony - Sanity/Insanity - Love/Hate - Beauty/Ugliness - Consciousness/Unconsciousness etc etc etc. Underneath her exterior, she may be suffering from crushing sadness. She talks shit about everyone and try to coaxes you into hating those people that she hates as well. Yes I do get angry and yes I get angry a lot sometimes. I have a Libra sister. And to think I still stood by her EVEN when I was admitted and discharged till her demented form comes devouring me inside out again!!! They are the most hypocritical people, will never hear the truth from them. I am the oldest daughter in my family I have 2 Libra sisters they only see their pain, their personal gain. there was no pleasing her no matter what i did. One is highly generous, but very, very controlling, everything HAS TO go their way. Always. My mother, grandmothers, two former female managers. Show her that you are interested in spending time with her, as this will help you ensure that she does not create any relationships that will cause her to suffer in the future. But I can agree when there's a negative personality and it's fixated on the sign some ppl are going to agree. Hehe. They are the best at putting on a good social front, especially at parties and board meetings. She did nothing. Nosy and users of others' lives. I was 9 y/o and he was 16. Should you become aware that the Libra woman in your life is sad or upset, be certain that you show her that you are available for support. But that's a 1 way thing. He was always an atheist person who would always take p**s of me, my sis and my mum when we would go to church and give donations. I am supposed to get along with this sign but it is the one I like the least. I was a big fool. Librans are extroverted, cosy, and friendly people. They are usually gentle and slow to anger, but can turn vicious in a moment if need be. Im dealing with a libra mom. If you cross my line you're already in the game of life or death for me. Should she begin to treat you in an inappropriate manner, then take the time to learn about what happens when a Libra woman is hurt. The determined, level-headed Capricorn can become the complete opposite when depressed. So while the posted article was interesting, it basically told one aspect of a particularly warped type of Libra. If they do they will learn to regret it. He can't see or type his sister's name in his FB IM? Sylvia Sky (author) from USA on September 06, 2016: The constellation Libra contains stars that belonged to Scorpio until astronomers (not astrologers!) Cancer is often emotional, needy, and will even cry after insignificant events, even if they see how silly they were acting after the fact. Virgo Man Not Texting Back: What Do I Do? Libra Woman. 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